VideoCast #5: Sexual Sin Opens Doors for Demonic Torment

VideoCast #5: Sexual Sin Opens Doors for Demonic Torment

November 15, 2019 15 By William Hollis


This is Deliverance Ministry. FM video cast episode number five. Hello again and welcome to this episode of Deliverance
Ministry.FM where we give you proven insights about the demonic realm and deliverance ministry
so you can wage spiritual warfare more effectively. This is Dr Don Ibbitson, of Above & Beyond
and I’m here with my colleague and cohost Dr Phyllis Tarbox and welcome Phyllis, Good
to have you back for another session and today we’re going to talk about sexual sin. We’re going to look at it from the perspective
of an open door for demonic torment. These podcasts we’re doing or both spiritual
warfare and that the plans of the enemy come against this and we’re going to talk about
how sexual sin that we have can be one of the open doors for demonic toment. Now we’ve been doing other podcasts, talking
about different aspects of deliverance, ministry basics of deliverance ministry. We looked at ungodly soul ties and spiritual
warfare and what not, and we touched about the fact that there are various open doors
and certainly would encourage you to listen to some of those podcasts to get additional
background. But, but part of it, and it’s important to
summarize, is the demonic spirits can oppress Christians from the inside of us in our soulish
realm and deliverance is the driving out of demons and there’s also oppression that happens
from the outside where these, and that’s what we call the concept of the battlefield of
the mind, where spirits can put thoughts in our mind and we need to resist those. But in the realm of open doors for, for, um,
for, for demonic torment, there’s a bunch of, you know, as I said, we touched on generational
curses, word curses, occultic sin, things done to us, abuse, traumas on forgiveness
and whatnot. But we’re wanting to look at today, one of
the open doors and explored it a little more depth. And that’s sexual sin. So we’re going to start on that in a moment. But before we do, I just want to encourage
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that we have. So let’s begin by starting kind of at a very
basic level, and Phyllis, if you would just tell us the definition that we use of what
comprises a person’s soul and then leading into that, what exactly is a soul tie made
up of our mind, our will and our emotions. There can be an open door for the enemy to
use. Pretty much exists now. Saul Tigh, we’ve talked about this like you
said in our other podcasts, that can be a bonding that’s based on love and respect. Like we mentioned, David and Jonathan, they
had a good godly bonding based on love. Their hearts were knitted together and people
can have good godly bondings with mothers, fathers, sisters, brothers and family members,
but there can also be an ungodly bonding and that’s where we want to focus on that open
door and that ungodly bonding can be based on sexual sin, which is, you know, sex outside
of a covenant of marriage or it can be based on control and influence. And today we’re going to focus primarily on
the sexual sin portion, but there’s a. There is a, there’s a bonding of the soul
together, you know, in the Bible, it doesn’t say necessarily soul tie, it calls it an ungodly
bonding of the flesh, right? And so that’s what we want to look at as an
open door today. OK? I think we’ve talked about this body, soul
and spirit model that we’ve used talked about before. And it’s important to understand that when
we get born again, we get a new spirit, but we don’t get a new soul, our soul, we are
to be renamed to Transform, right? And why were you doing our mind and different
things. But the demonic realm can, can be occupy in
our soldiers realm and that’s, that’s important. So that’s where we’re going to see is how
and why this term, it could be on our, in our realm. And so we talked about soul ties down a little
bit there and, but now let’s get right down to brass tacks and, and there’s different
views on this in the world, probably even in the church obviously, but how do, what
do we consider sexual sin? What did, what is the definition, if you like,
that we use most general in, at above and beyond. I would think it would be some type of sexual
activity that would be outside of a sanctified covenant of marriage. Would you agree? We, we think it’s basically what Bible, it’s
sexual activity is between a man and a woman in the bounds of marriage, in anything outside
of that and even including pre marital relations does constitute, does constitute sexual sin. So it’s everything else has seen him and you
know, sin eaters. Core is, is breaking the laws of God and we
get asked all the time, well as such and such can, is this in hit kissing, have you know
what a lot of these things you’ve, you know, some of the things there is not explicit scriptures
on and Christians and pastors and therapists could dis disagree. So we’re not going to get into too much. What constitutes sexual assault? What sort of activities and what I generally
encourage people to do to say, well, you know, apart from what we’ve already talked about,
you ask the Lord to reveal it to you is that was that was that sexual sin. And so it’s, it’s. What do you think? That’s. I think that’s a good example and I think
it’s good that you brought up that point about the fact that even premarital sax, because
a lot of people think that once they get that ring on their finger or their intended and
they know they’re going to get married, that that’s already sanctified even before they
get married and that, that that’s a big open door for tournament because you know it’s
not been sanctified before God. It’s not a marriage contract yet. And that surprises a lot of it. A lot of people don’t think it’s OK to do that in. And as you’re sitting here, Phillis, I’m recalling
an account I heard and I can’t remember all the specifics I want to, I believe was from
Pa Peter Horror urban of all ministries and very respected man of God and have a wonderful
ministries. There are believe he tells her story on one
of his times where they minister to somebody who, a woman who had some demonic torment
in her life and they, they discern the root of it was because of premarital sexual relationship
that she had between her and her husband. They ended up marrying each other. They were virgins. They marry, they were here, they were getting
married, they had sexual activity and sexual activity prior to marriage was an open door
for demonic. So that, that sort of thing does happen. And so, you know, it’s, it is an open door. And um, that’s why we’re discussing it. Yeah, I think it’s good because I do get that
surprise look on the faces of a lot of clients that come in when you talk about premarital
sex. But why shouldn’t account because I’m a marrying
him. It should be OK, but that’s a good point. I’m glad you brought. Well, exactly. And he said about legal rights. It is sexual sin and the demonic kingdom knows
the word of God says, and when there are legal rights or opened doors for demonic tournament
to tournament this, and that’s one of them. And as we’ve touched on, even getting born
again, getting saved, repenting, asking God to forgive us and receiving doesn’t necessarily
mean that these spirits that came upon us automatically leave and have to leave. So. Alright, well let’s advance from this a little
bit. This concept of soul ties, ungodly soul tie. How does that relate to sexual sin? What’s the what, what, what can we, what is
the, what is, what do we have in the Bible? It talks about. Well, the paraphrase. I think the first Corinthian 16 is the one
that’s the most clear and you know, paraphrase it. It’s basically Paul speaking and he’s saying,
you know, you don’t want to sleep with a harlot or a prostitute. You don’t want to sleep with someone outside
of a covenant of marriage because you are the temple of the Holy Spirit and you don’t
want to defile your flesh. And he says that because you don’t want to
let these things come into your temple because there is a bonding of the flash where he says
to become one and you know, we can see it in the natural. It also has spiritual implications. So in this particular scripture, he’s saying
that flash is your body and we know that when two become one and the natural bonding to
become one. Now he also refers in Romans seven and eight
to flashes something different. But he says, he says, I keep doing the things
I don’t want to do, but I do them anyway. I’m in this constant battle with my flesh. So when those scriptures, he’s referring to
flesh as his, as the soulless realm. So as a bonding of the flash, then we’re talking
about a bonding of the body and a bonding of the soul. And so I think that you know, everything in
the, in, in the spirit realm, and in God’s word, the enemy loves to twist and pervert. So you’ll hear things like he’s my soul mate
and that sort of thing. And there’s an element of truth that because
there is a bonding of the body and the soul together, and we know that the spirit’s, um,
you know, if that, that is an open door of sexual sin and you’re allowing that door to
be open, then the spirits are bound. That inner in one person’s soul can actually
go into another person’s soul because of that two becoming one in the flesh. And so I think the natural picture of that
would be like, if, you know, if you slept with somebody who had an std, then there’s
a good chance you could get that estimate disease in the natural, in the spirit realm. When you sleep with someone who has demonic
torment in your soul and your soul and flesh and body become one, then there’s a really
good chance that some of those spirits now can come in to you. It’s like an open door of transference. And so I think that’s how the spirit realm
operates to, you know, multiply its effect, so to speak, because that sexual sin door,
you know, we were always taught when we were younger, you know, if you sleep with that
boy, then you’re, you’re also sleeping with the girl. He slept with that girl, you know Donna well,
spiritually, this bondage is the same thing there. There’s some multiplication effect that’s
not good. It isn’t that people understand it in the
natural or something like that or billboards out there that if you sleep with somebody
like that, you slept with like sleeping with everybody. And then people understand that in the, in
the physical realm, but in the natural ear, in the spirit realm, that it’s even more magnified
because as you say, you can leave, pick up, you know, the, the spirits can transfer. So you can be picking up spirits from other
people. I think it’s important to really for, for
if you’re listening to this podcast, you’ve got a Bible and take a look at that scripture. First Corinthians [inaudible]. Paul talks about uniting in the body. So that speaks to the body’s being physically
joined, but he says they become one flesh and that’s where we get into this now. But you, we can look at it in the context
of marriage, scriptures, husband and wife has become one flesh. They’re joined also one that’s a godly Barney. So that’s such a powerful picture that we
are because the devil’s read the book to the. When we have this sexual sin, the bodies are
joined, the soles are joined and basically the spirits can transfer from one person to
another. They can flow into one person from another. Like I say, we see it in with aroma diseases,
but it also happens in the realm of demonic torments. We’ve. So that that’s important. And I know some people are listening to this
and your eyes are probably getting just listening to this and of course, and I’ll stay tuned. There’s good news for all of this. You know, every seen everything. There’s provision for at the Cross and appropriating
the victory, but it is important to understand that this is a huge, great big open door for
demonic torments homosexual sin and the spirit is residing in the soil. And of course we need to get delivered from
the east. And we’ve, and we’ve touched upon the fact
that, you know, just repenting, receiving forgiveness for the, in sexual sin doesn’t
mean that demonic spirits have to leave, you know, that that’s where the step, whenever
the final final freedom. Right? Well, I think so, yeah, we, we need to, we
need deliverance from those spirits that can still be there and it’s in the whole realm
of deliverance issues. But I mean, we talked about this in general
terms, Phyllis, and we’ve done a lot of ministry in helping people over the years. Can you share some instances where you, we
know of people who have had issues in their life, um, that many times you can look and
say these things started after, um, you know, sexual activity or sexual sin with somebody. I actually had, you know, one young man say
I was happy and I was so lucky and I lived a very joyful life, but then in college I
slept with the girl who had been date raped and had bipolar, manic depression. And it was like ever since that day I’ve been
depressed morbidly and I’ve watched my life go down into that same as he said. It’s like I caught it and you can’t catch
depression, but in the spirit realm there was a transference, I’m sure because it was
an outside of a know marriage consecration. I’m also a woman that came in. Um, and this was part of her history was that
she said she felt like she had a soul mate with one of her partners that she had had
an affair with outside of her, outside of her marriage. And she just always felt like he was her soulmate,
the one. And based on that open door, there was a lot
of suicide and depression that came in with that. And then she tried to commit suicide. And so, um, I felt she, her work in her words,
she felt like she was addicted to him. So, you know, with women, I think we have
to be very careful because we’re made to be intimate and it means a lot to us and you
know, when you, when that happens outside of the covenant of marriage and the, and the
enemy starts to say, you know, you’re never going to find anyone better than, you know,
a lot of that stuff started to come into her because of that relationship. It left her open for that also. Go ahead. So when somebody says, well, this is my soul
mate, he, how do you feel when you hear that term? Somebody will say that many times. He is my soul mate. Where is my [inaudible]? She’s my soul mate. When you hear those words, what does that
mean as a counselor? It makes me a little nervous to be quite frank,
especially if it’s somebody in their past that they’re holding onto. If it’s someone that they’re in a good relationship
with, like a husband or something like that now, then that’s, you know, there’s probably
a good godly bonding based on love there. But if it’s from the past and it’s something
that’s tormenting them, like they feel like they’ve missed out on something, then you
know, then I think that that can be quite large. Open door. We were asking for examples. So I think one of the ones I’ve mentioned
before, but it’s powerful as is, um, of the woman that I minister to and hospice who had,
who had gotten Parkinson’s disease and Parkinson’s disease. When I asked her how she caught it, which,
you know, when she asks, she looked at me and said, why would you phrase it that you
would not be in the room with me right now if you could catch Parkinson’s? And I did it on purpose because I wanted to
hear her story. And the Lord had already told me there was
probably a good one. She said, um, my husband died and when he
died I got it. And I didn’t have a, a surprised look on my
face. And she was pretty surprised about that, Don,
she looked at me and said, how come you’re not looking like everybody else looked when
I told them that story? And I said, well, because I have more questions. And so then I asked her, did you sleep with
your husband before you married him? And she said, yeah, I slept with him for 11
years, didn’t everybody back then? And I said, well, I’m not judging you, I’m
just asking a question because then I went through the purpose of explaining to her how
that soul tie could have happened in that spirit. Uh, had every legal right to use her body,
didn’t need it while he was alive. But once he died then it transferred over
to her to torment her with the same disease. So that was a big one that we were able to
break that. And she actually came back and health quite
a bit after we broke that soul tie in. Of course, the letter to the Lord. I’ve also had men come into the office that
have literally slept with prostitutes. Now, you know, I would imagine that a prostitute
is pretty loaded with. It’s based on the number of people and this
man was a powerful man in, in, in his day. He was a very powerful businessman who had,
when he came in, he was reduced to this cowering thing that sat in the corner of my office
just shaking in fear. I mean, he had so much fear on him because
he had slept with his prostitute and it just really overwhelmed him and it was very quick,
didn’t take a lot of days. It was like that night that he really felt
that. And so, you know, you, you can see that. And, and I think that one of the interesting
things is, as we were talking about this a few years ago, and I’ve mentioned it before,
but, um, for the purposes of the podcast, I think it’s worthy to bring up again. Um, there was a history show, channel television
show that they did on Haight Ashbury. And you know, of course that’s too young for
us, Don, because you were too young to really remember that sort of thing. But Hey, dash very of course was in 1967 and
it was billed as what the summer of love and the during the Vietnam War area. So it was the make love not war kind of banner
that was going on everywhere. And if you’re looking at things from a spiritual
perspective, how is the enemy going to take love and twist it so he can use it. I mean, that’s God’s greatest gift, right
as to walk in that fruit of love. So I’m sure he got his handle on it back during
that time. And then this particular television show was
from the police department’s perspective and they said that that summer in Haight Ashbury,
um, it still is on record today, has the largest number of rapes, overdoses, murders, and violence
on, on the charts as opposed to any other year. And the officer said it was like somebody
opened up Pandora’s box that year and all hell let loose. Well, that was the year will really sexual
revolution. Not that it wasn’t here earlier, but it really
swept. The country, exploded in. That became an OK thing because it’s heck,
it’s love. We’re not doing anything wrong, so it’s gotta
be good and I think that’s where you watched a lot of the multiplication in the spirit
realm come in because if the enemy wanted to shift a nation or a group quickly, um,
with multiplied demonic tournament through an open door of sexual sin, it would be to
make it acceptable and get everybody to do it because you know, that’s what you hear
from most people that come in today. But this is what everybody does and how, how
will we know if we’re compatible to live together unless we have sex first and we don’t live,
you know? And so that whole deception is really ingrained
in our culture. It’s different than it was back in the sixties
when you’re right in terms of. But the concept is still the same, that it’s
OK to have these kinds of relationships. And if people miss out on the fact that don’t
understand this, how it opens the door from the two for demonic torment and picking up
the spirits from other people. And I want to come back to something you mentioned
about them dealing with prostitutes, prostitutes or people coming out who’d been in prostitution
and yeah, many times they are tormented and they’re full of spirits. And so when they, you know, having the relationships
with somebody they can pick up and we’ll certainly pass those spirits to other people. And I remember an encounter as well where
the man who was, who, who was, you know, I came in and had issues in his life, but he
could trace him. He knew when things started in his life on
a business trip and he was over in Amsterdam and an encounter with a prostitute over there. And from that point on, he knew that things
had gone bad. Issue started to manifest his life and he
could trace it back to that. So he picked up, you know, apart from any
kind of fear and the shame or anything else was there that encounter. But it was very likely an open door for demonic
spirits to enter in issues in his life that weren’t there before and now they were there. So what about, what about this? As long as we’re on that subject, what about
a lot of the men or the military men who in their past they slept with, you know, like
a lot of prostitution and things all over the country. Even even husbands now that slat or women
that slept with people before they got married. Then when they have sex before marriage, than
you can actually are taken on a lot of those demons so that also all that stuff needs to
get cleared up around for people. Absolutely. All right, well we’ve got all the bad news
out there apart for forgiveness and are not a part I don’t want to minimize that can receive
forgiveness for the sin. All the sin sexual sin is no different. We see for every send, but how do we deal? How does a person deal with this idea of breaking
if you like soul ties? Well, it’s easy. You know, I think that God gave us the blood
of Jesus Christ in order to be able to and use it, and so there’s a simple way of declaring
that you. I break every ungodly soul tie and you speak
this out loud and you cancel out with those people from your past and you declare them
speak their name out and you cancel the assignment of that on godly soul. Tie out loud. Well, because the demonic realm, you know
the, the, the Ephesians, I think it’s chapter two. It talks about how Satan is the prince of
the airwaves, and so he can’t. He’s not like the Holy Spirit. He cannot hear your silent prayer is if you’re
going to declare something broken in his world, then you need to speak it into his world because demons cannot, cannot read our mind,
right? That people believe that demons can’t read
her mind, but what we say yes and they and they see what we do here. Yes, yes, yes. So I’m breaking, breaking those on godly soul
ties. Then determine to keep them broken, you know,
not to reestablish them. And then of course the spirits that have come
in with those soul ties meet those. Those people need to go through deliverance
to have those things called out so he can break the soul, tie in sever that take away
the legal right, the legal right, but then you need to get deliverance from the spirits
that came in and then sometimes we let, I mean, we’ve seen
it where sometimes people just doing a declaration, whether it’s forgiveness for breaking soul
ties, they do get delivered. It does. It does happen in God’s sovereignty delivers
people, but I think the point is important to emphasize that one of the science to follow
believers as in mark 16, 17 mark 16, verse 17, he talks about one of the sciences, the
driving out of demons, a weird to drive demons out, one to another radio as part of that
industry. So that declaration, you know, break the ungodly
soul tie that person isn’t really that simple. Want me to do that is I think he made it simple. He said he made it simple, right? But I just think the problem is that none
of us really understood this. I personally, if I would have been taught
this before I launched into the world, I think I could’ve saved myself a great deal because
personally, you know, I waited for a long time and not to be too transparent here, but
as soon as that door opened, um, well I’ll tell you what, I had a good 20 years of sickness,
you know, until I really understood this. And that’s why you know I’m here with you
today is because I had a lot of righteous anger that this didn’t get taught in the church
to a lot of us when it could have helped us when we were younger. So those people that are hearing this now,
if you haven’t opened that door, don’t open that door. I open the door and if you open it, there’s
a way to get it with righteous anger mean. Hosea four, six is God’s people perish for
lack of noise. And this is one of those areas, in fact, so
much in the realm of deliverance ministry, there was a lot more on confusion and misinformation
or lack of information. And some people really need to have that. So we need to break the soul ties and then
you know, how do you keep from reestablishing ungodly sexual, sensual, w, w, what do people
need to do if you’re not married and if you are, just keep your relationships with inside
your covenant marriage right now wandering. The key is breaking them, keeping them broken
into and just want to touch on something here. We’re not going to talk about it in this podcast,
but people understand that we’re talking about sexual sin or people willingly enter into
activities, but there’s a realm of molestation, sexual abuse. There’s rapes. Those involve the similar types of ungodly
soul ties with people, but it’s not consensual obviously, but unfortunately, like I said,
we’ll touch on. We’ve touched on this and some other podcasts
and we’ll touch on in the future. These type of things are open doors for demonic
torments the sexual activity was done to you. You want are willing and active participant
and people say, well that’s not fair. Well, you know, there’s a lot of things in
the spirit realm that don’t seem to be fair and the devils come to kill, steal and destroy. And so the good news is that you know, that
there is provision for healing and deliverance and victory from all these things. But I think it’s important to touch because
the people that are listening that have had to endure, that sort of thing, don, they know
they probably had some tournament come into their life because of that and maybe they
haven’t been able to get the victory over it. And this would answer a lot of that for them. Well, it is because of the soul tie, right? There is that distinction though, because
a lot of people have these things done to them on willingly, but a lot of things, you
know, sexual activity, people enter into it willingly. If you’ll like him out of ignorance, open
the doors for these demonic torments. So that’s really what we’re talking about. They’re so sexual sin is an open door for
demonic torments. By that we mean for spirits to enter into
us because of these nature of the bondage that help us. And we can pick up his spirit, some other
people. And there’s a way to have those broken. And then provision for deliverance from those. So as we’ve talked about this, what’s the,
you know, one of the one or two key things or points that you’d like to emphasize for
people to really take away from this film? I like to always say this, that our past does
not own us know. We’re not bound to it is we don’t have to
carry it with us. Everywhere we go. It’s not going to destroy a site. Not hear. A lot of people say that I’m broken. I’m never going to be the same, um, that’s
too late for me. And that’s, you know, a lie of the enemy. Basically God provided a way out and for every
well he provided a deliver or so, you know, he’s not trying to keep us in bondage. He has the answers for us that provide freedom
and victory and it’s never too late and it doesn’t really matter because we can put it
underneath the blood of Jesus Christ and it will be done and handled. And there’s, there’s, you know, God is. God is faithful with that. He wants his children pray. That’s important. There is hope there. And I think the point that I’d like to emphasize
is that as Christians, we shouldn’t really get a grip on understanding what is the real
world. People tend to see the natural world. We live in the physical world. But as believers I think we should really
get a grasp, a hold of the fact that they’re. That the spirit realm is the real world. In fact, many times what happens in the natural
world is a reflection reaction of what’s already happening in the spirit realm and in this
whole realm of sexual sin like I see the world understands diseases, stds, whether you’re
a Christian or an atheist, Muslim, it doesn’t matter. We understand you understand the concept of
sexually transmitted diseases, but I think if we understand the concept of ungodly soul
ties and picking up spirits from people and in many cases as bad as stds are in these
devils and can manifest stations of other kinds of torment in a person’s life as well,
apart from just the stds and so understand that the gravity of it. But once again, just to piggyback off of what
you said, that there is hope. There is victory through the, through what
Jesus did on the cross. All right, well let me, uh, just say, and
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